latitude
Big Man In A Little Suit
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Post by latitude on Apr 13, 2018 19:04:10 GMT
I see where you're coming from NLR, and agree with you really. As for your post, Dr.john, it was fabulous. That was the truth of the matter. I'm sure it won't be deleted. It's what she really needs to hear. Btw, she deleted her account, but that doesn't mean she can't read posts as a guest. She just can't post back.
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Post by newloneranger on Apr 13, 2018 19:07:15 GMT
just reading the the post above, wasn't there when I first posted my reply....what am I supposed to be angry about?[/quote]
Threads being closed. Don't judge Bite to harshly. He is new at this.(at least newer than me). We as moderators just need to be on the same page. I'd like to hear his point of view as well.
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Post by BiteUrLip on Apr 13, 2018 19:33:29 GMT
Well, this is a weird case. From the start when Brianna made her first posts in original Hercules, I knew that we would be dealing with a different person than normally. And I was also aware that we could face problems. I've been following her in Facebook and most of her posts are about herself. That's not a problem, but her mentality going all the time from "others should apologize for me" to "I should apologize for all" is causing a lot of confusion.
How do you think we should react to this? I mean, I could send her a Facebook PM. Her situation makes me really sad and I really hope it could get better!
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Post by Dr Johnny Fever on Apr 13, 2018 20:06:35 GMT
Well, this is a weird case. From the start when Brianna made her first posts in original Hercules, I knew that we would be dealing with a different person than normally. And I was also aware that we could face problems. I've been following her in Facebook and most of her posts are about herself. That's not a problem, but her mentality going all the time from "others should apologize for me" to "I should apologize for all" is causing a lot of confusion. How do you think we should react to this? I mean, I could send her a Facebook PM. Her situation makes me really sad and I really hope it could get better! There's nothing to stop her coming back...as it's an open board now, she could just change her name and come back as someone else (name wise)as for FB, I personally would leave it..as nothing's going to change, she'll still be up and down..and the world will be against her..everyone will hate her..but her beloved Elton..
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latitude
Big Man In A Little Suit
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Post by latitude on Apr 13, 2018 20:20:15 GMT
Well, this is a weird case. From the start when Brianna made her first posts in original Hercules, I knew that we would be dealing with a different person than normally. And I was also aware that we could face problems. I've been following her in Facebook and most of her posts are about herself. That's not a problem, but her mentality going all the time from "others should apologize for me" to "I should apologize for all" is causing a lot of confusion. How do you think we should react to this? I mean, I could send her a Facebook PM. Her situation makes me really sad and I really hope it could get better! There's nothing to stop her coming back...as it's an open board now, she could just change her name and come back as someone else (name wise)as for FB, I personally would leave it..as nothing's going to change, she'll still be up and down..and the world will be against her..everyone will hate her..but her beloved Elton.. I agree with Dr john. We're only a message board. Nobody here is a trained psychologist. We can't fix her. She needs long term therapy and good meds. If and when she comes back here she will undoubtedly be the same. And there will be problems. It *is* a sad situation, Bite, but as Dr john has clearly said, there are a LOT of people with mental problems, and he was one. They need trained help. I'm curious, Bite---how do people on Facebook deal with her?
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Post by Dr Johnny Fever on Apr 13, 2018 20:21:02 GMT
just reading the the post above, wasn't there when I first posted my reply....what am I supposed to be angry about? Threads being closed. Don't judge Bite to harshly. He is new at this.(at least newer than me). We as moderators just need to be on the same page. I'd like to hear his point of view as well. [/quote] I wasn't angry about threads being closed...I try not to get angry as I'd go off on one and think one Bainnia is enough on the board...just wanted to know why two threads had been closed....still really haven't had an answer to that question..and "to stop Biannia from posting on them?..WTF..she just posted on whatever post was the newest...so that worked well, didn't it..so what was the point of closing threads?...(I know I'm a bit of a "dog with a bone" and won't really be happy, till I get an answer that I feel will put it to bed, for me) as as for the FB question and how do people think about Biannia, from the odd post Ive come across..."arses licking, springs to mind"
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Post by BiteUrLip on Apr 13, 2018 21:11:30 GMT
Well, the latest closing was because I feared an angry reaction from Brianna. I tried to stop it that way, although I knew she could write elsewhere. I don't believe she would come in with another user name to spoil the board. She ain't an evil person, I believe. I haven't seen her clashing with anyone in FB.
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latitude
Big Man In A Little Suit
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Post by latitude on Apr 13, 2018 21:32:03 GMT
Well, the latest closing was because I feared an angry reaction from Brianna. I tried to stop it that way, although I knew she could write elsewhere. I don't believe she would come in with another user name to spoil the board. She ain't an evil person, I believe. I haven't seen her clashing with anyone in FB. That's why she doesn't like it here. Because we don't kiss up, and they do. That's what she wants. It can't happen over here. I don't understand why she just doesn't stick with Facebook, and leave here once and for all, and mean it. Well, maybe she actually did leave this time.
I don't believe she's evil, but she's so messed up that there's no way to know *what* she's going to say and do.
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Post by BiteUrLip on Apr 14, 2018 1:02:10 GMT
Well, the latest closing was because I feared an angry reaction from Brianna. I tried to stop it that way, although I knew she could write elsewhere. I don't believe she would come in with another user name to spoil the board. She ain't an evil person, I believe. I haven't seen her clashing with anyone in FB. That's why she doesn't like it here. Because we don't kiss up, and they do. That's what she wants. It can't happen over here. I don't understand why she just doesn't stick with Facebook, and leave here once and for all, and mean it. Well, maybe she actually did leave this time.
I don't believe she's evil, but she's so messed up that there's no way to know *what* she's going to say and do.
She wanted to join simply because she was so much attracted to Elton, of course! Obviously she wants to be in touch with anything Elton -related, and so was the old board and this one.
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Post by Dr Johnny Fever on Apr 14, 2018 10:38:07 GMT
Well, the latest closing was because I feared an angry reaction from Brianna. I tried to stop it that way, although I knew she could write elsewhere. I don't believe she would come in with another user name to spoil the board. She ain't an evil person, I believe. I haven't seen her clashing with anyone in FB. But you closed the threads after she had already gone off on one...which made it seem to me, that I was the problem?...in case I went off on one or something...I also believe she won't come back as another name and if she does come back it'll be as who she is now...I'm not bothered one way or the other...I do believe Bite that your intentions were for the best, if a waste of time, doing so..but feel you didn't really think about it and just jumped in.. i still feel feel I need a break from here...for whatever reason..
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